Psychologists and Philosophers and People in general can talk for hours about basic human needs, and one that always comes up is Attachment. I find my attachment in connection, and that's why I write. In an attempt to connect to other people, I blog and comment and participate in things like Open Calls.
I've always been a connector. I'm fortunate to live close enough to walk to work. The difference between walking and driving is definitely connection, and being able to see more of the neighborhood than my dashboard. I talk to people all day long, and love it... because having your voice heard, having your eyes contacted, having your mind opened are some of life's great pleasures.
Think on it, the best part of fishing isn't the casting or baiting, it's the exciting nibble on the end of your line. The best part of cooking isn't stirring or chopping, it's tasting the food. The best part of loving someone isn't just the chase, it's the win. The best part of changing a light bulb isn't the grabbing hot glass accidentally, it's the elimination of darkness. The best part of a puzzle isn't spreading all the pieces out, it's the satisfying snap of finding the right place for one. The best part of finding your religion or discussing your values isn't the reading or arguing, but the solidification of beliefs in your soul... Connection.
We all long to connect, and I'm fortunate to have connected with some amazing people recently who help bring it all together for me and brighten my days. Thank you, Open Salon, and especially thank you Torman, for reminding us why we persist here.